Hello, Tyler and Conrad here, back with another episode for your listening pleasure (read: audio only).

In this episode, Jason talks with Robert Scoble and Loren Feldman about Facebook in the wake of Jason’s declaration of Facebook bankruptcy. Also, the trio discuss the recent controversies surrounding PodTech, one of the sponsors of the CalacacanisCast.

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anyone need an invite to Kevin’s Pownce?

AOL changing name to TMZ according to this…

I can’t wait for Gnomedex…. one of my favorite events. Aug. 9th-11th in Seattle.
http://www.gnomedex.com/2007/

This is a really great How To from two of our music Guides here at Mahalo.
http://www.mahalo.com/How_to_Download_Free_Music

There are so many great tips in here on how to find mp3s on blogs, in gooogle, and on services like the HypeMachine.

Note: Don’t go doing nothin’ illegal… only download the legal stuff!

If you want to save it on other services here are the standard links:
Delicious
StumbleUpon
digg
reddit
netscape

Cute…

Folks are sending in postcards (of the hanging): Get sick, get well style.

For the record being sick and blogging has upside… all this discussion I’ve learned:

1. I’m down to 185-187 on my fatblogging (for Meredith, of course)… thanks to not being able to eat solid food for three days. Not sustainable, but sure is nice to see 185 come up on a scale.

2. I’ve gotten 300 more requests to add on Facebook, and I’ve learned that making my Facebook private will only increase the number of people trying to add me (thanks for the Facebookbaiting tip Scoble). You can add me here: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=504598293

3. Facebook’s UI is liar… I don’t believe it! Seriously, it said I had 150 friend requests. So I added 150 people and reloaded the page… I now have 150 friends requests. I think I might have like 1,000 backedup. The situation is much worse than I feared.

Can someone tell me why this thing doesn’t have a cut and paste function?

[ Note: I will leave comments open for this one ]

Today I’m waking up with the Smashing Pumpkins ringing in my ears and my ego search ringing off the hook. My throat and head are about 60-70% healed and looking back on my last couple of posts about turning off comments and declaring Facebook bankruptcy and asking:

• was my physical exhaustion the cause of my social networking exhaustion?
  

Clearly I’m physical spent right now, but I think pushing myself to the edge to try to keep up with the Facebook insanity made me realize something: why exactly am I using these social networks? I really don’t need any more friends, in fact I feel guilty that I can’t keep up with my “friendship maintenance” as it is (my friend Shawn Gold came up with that term… I love it). No sooner was I thinking about this then Robert Seidman (yes, that Robert that we all used to wait on to figure out what to think of AOL breaking 10M members) emailed me with this one:

• I’m curious though, is there anything you feel like you will miss, or miss out on as a result of punting? Was there anything specific you found of value versus everything else available to you via the Internet that you feel “I will miss that, but it just wasn’t worth the trouble.”
  

Still thinking…..

Processing…..

Nothing coming up yet…..

Oh wait! I’ve got it!

Facebook is a great way for me to promote what I’m doing. No sooner do I come to this realization then I pop over to Robert Scoble’s blog, where he is thrilled that he no longer has to compete with me for Facebook users attention when he’s promoting HIMSELF. (no link for scoble since he started the link-cold war of 2007). Great. Now if I don’t spend 30 minutes a day–and that’s what I think it will take–to keep my Facebook garden groomed, I’m going to derelict in my duties as the Internet’s 4th biggest self-promoter (behind Scoble, Kevin Rose, and Guy Kawaz…. the funny dude who worked at Apple for 15 minutes).

If Scoble is right then people are involved in Facebook because they think it is important to be involved in it because it will drive traffic to what their doing. Oh, an a bunch of Web 2.0 companies obsessing over it. So, if I’m getting this right, Facebook is a multilevel marketing platform where you agree to pay attention to people’s gestures in the hopes that those people will pay-attention to your gestures in the future. It’s a gesture bank.

{ praying: It’s not a bubble… It’s not a bubble…. There’s no place like home, there’s no place like home… }

OK, now that we’ve got that on the table why else are we here? Putting aside the need for humans to procreate, I can’t help but wonder: are we creating a social system to communicate with each other at a distance because the reality of creating and maintaining that social networking face-to-face is, well, scary? Do we not want to pick up the phone and tell five friends we want them to come over for dinner and a movie, so we instead throw food at them and tell them to watch something we previously watched and liked? Intimacy, deep friendships, and love can be scary, clicking your mouse is not.

Is Facebook a more efficient, rejection-free, surrogate for the real world? Is that what we want?

Fred Wilson thinks I’m linkbaiting and tells me to try to work through the issue. Is it linkbiating if you say what’s on your mind and it turns out what’s on your mind is on a lot of people’s mind but they haven’t had the guts or time or proclivity to missive it? Because that’s all I’ve ever done as a blogger: say what I’m thinking as bluntly and honestly as I can. That’s all I’m doing here. I could care less if one person links to it or 100 link to it.

Now, I’m not saying Facebook has no value. I’m not player hating on dude(s) for creating a page-view monster. This is a thinking piece, and my thoughts are that at a certain point social networks create negative returns on your investment. What do you think? Is Facebook is SOOOOOOO efficient that perhaps it’s destined to drowned people.

Are we going to hire someone to manage our social networks like we hire gardeners to tend to our gardens? If you asked people 200, 100, 50 and 25 years ago about the concept of hiring a gardener to mow your lawn would they think you were crazy and wasteful?

Maybe we should all go back to mowing our own lawns?

Comments are, again, turned off.

I’m no interested in what the vile, drive by anonymous commenters have to say… and the one out of five comments that are interesting to me I get by email or IM anyway. I’m interested in what the *considered* people have to say, and comments are too easy.

If you want to join this discussion it’s very simple: you start your own blog and you mention my name in it and technorati or Google blog search will let me know you’ve contributed. You can email me as well at jason at calacanis dot com. But I’m over giving a platform to anonymous haters and having to cleanup their puke on a daily basis.

Scott Rafer says I’m being elitist by not providing comments. My response to Scott is that I’m 100% available to the entire world by SMS, email, AIM, Facebook, LinkedIn, Skype, Twitter, and blog post. If someone want to reach me they can–that negates your whole elitist argument. It is not my job to give people the platform, it’s their job to take it. If they choose to not take the platform and speak up, well, then maybe they shouldn’t be part of the conversation. Yes, I’m saying that. If you can take the five minutes to puke into the comment box you can take the 7 minutes to create your own blog and have some level of ownership of your words. It’s not elitism, it’s a meritocracy.

J

Here’s a cut and paste from TechMeme for some other people discussing the issue.

I’m listening to Andrew Keen’s Google talk. He’s a controversial guy, and he is certainly poking people for a response, but I have to say he’s main points are EXACTLY what I’ve come to learn.

Things that he said that are correct:

1. Sites like Reddit and digg-type sites are too eash to game. CORRECT.
2. The line between advertising and content is being blurred by web 2.0 and that is a bad thing. CORRECT.
3. Payment systems for artists are important and if they don’t have them they will find a way to get them. CORRECT.
4. People are increasingly insulting each other. CORRECT.

Do I love Wikipedia, digg, reddit,